CHAYE SARAH 1992
In the Torah portion Chaye Sarah we learn how Sarah died at 127 years
old. The rabbis explain that when Sarah heard about the Akedah,
the binding of Isaac, she died. The rabbis all ask, why is it
that she died? After all, what she heard was that Avraham and Yitzchak
were both coming back, so she should have been happy. She should not
have died. Why is it that: she died after she heard about the
Akedah?
Also, the Torah mentions some extra words here when it mentions that
she was 127 years old when she died. It says, "They were the life
of Sarah 100 years and 20 years and 7 years. These were the years
of the life of Sarah." Rashi explains that all of Sarah's lives were
equal. How could that possibly be that all of Sarah's lives were
equal? After all, we know that every age has its advantages and its
disadvantages, so what does it mean that all the days of her life were
equal?
What's more, later on we learn that when Abraham goes to the sons of
Chais in order to buy a burial plot for Sarah that the sons of Chais
tell him three times that they are going to give the burial plot to him
free, but he ends up paying an exorbitant price, a price that some
people say is 80 or 100 times the average of the working man, when
really you should have been able to buy a burial plot for just the
average wage of a working man. Why is it that the Torah tells us
that the sons of Chais offered the burial plot to Abraham three times
for nothing, and that Abraham, himself, mentions the sons of Chais ten
times?
Perhaps the answers to these questions we can refer to a Medrash, in
fact, to two parallel Medrashim that almost say exactly the same
thing. The Medrash says that Rabbi Akiva when he noticed that the
audience to which he was speaking started to fall asleep said that,
"Just because Sarah lived 127 years Esther ruled over 127 provinces,"
because it says in the Megillah that Achaverosh ruled over 127
provinces and, of course, Esther was his queen. There is a
similar Medrash in which Ravi noticed that his audience, too, was
falling asleep so he said that
there was one woman in Egypt who bore at one time 600,000 men, and we
see from here that the 600,000 men were really Moshe Rabbeinu, that the
woman who bore 600,000 men was Yocheved, Moshe's mother. The
Torah says that Moshe was equivalent to all the men in Israel so,
therefore, Yocheved bore 600,000 men.
The rabbis explain that in the time of Rabbi Akiva there was a terrible
depression that had set in among the Jewish people. Many of the
Jewish people had given up hope that Judaism could survive.
Hadrian had put down violently and viciously the rebellion of Bar
Kochba. In fact, Sweetonius the Greek historian says that 600,000
Jews were killed and countless millions were exiled and sold into
slavery. The Jewish people were in a very bad situation. Hadrian
banned the Jewish religion. He banned Rabbi Akiva even from teaching
the Jewish religion, any rabbi from teaching the religion, and Rabbi
Akiva, himself, was put to death because he would not stop teaching
Judaism. So the Jewish people were in a terrible state and,
therefore, Rabbi Akiva said this in order to encourage them, that
falling asleep they had thought that G-d no longer cared for the Jewish
people. They thought that Judaism could no longer survive, and
then he told them about because Sarah lived 127 years. What does it
mean? Sarah, too, went through all sorts of turmoil. She
left her home. She travelled with her husband. She could
not have children, yet, she never gave up hope. She never gave up
belief that Judaism would continue, that she would eventually have a
son, and she did have a son when she was 90 years old, but she never
gave up hope and never gave up faith even though she had a difficult
time. She was taken captive by Pharaoh. She was taken
captive by Avi Melech, who had sexual designs on her but because of
G-d's intervention nothing happened, but she was shunted back and forth
between this city and that city and she had to endure all sorts of
privations, yet, she never gave up hope. That, of course, is what
Rabbi Akiva was telling them, that because Sarah lived 127 years and no
matter what life brought her, no matter what the trials and
tribulations
no matter the threats, no matter the compromising situations she never
gave up hope, and that was exactly the same thing with Queen
Esther. When Haman came on the scene he wanted to do what Hitler
wanted to do. He wanted to kill every single Jew. He almost
succeeded. It was only through the intervention of Esther that
the Jewish people were able to obtain arms from the king and were able
to defend themselves. They acquitted themselves well against the
enemies of the Jewish people who wanted to destroy us. In the
darkest days when many Jews had already given up hope Esther did not
give up hope, and Esther said, "I will continue and I will eventually
prevail," and she did prevail.
The same thing is true of the story of Moshe in Egypt. The people in Egypt had
sunk to the 49th level of Tumah. They had given up. They thought that Judaism
was dead, that they had no future, but then Moshe came on the scene, and Moshe,
of course, with G-d's help, rescued the Jewish people. He took them out of slavery.
He took them out of Egypt. This was the message that Rabbi Akiva and Ravi were
giving to their times. Ravi, too, lived in difficult times under Roman control,
not as difficult as Rabbi Akiva but also difficult times. Many times the Jewish
people when they are confronted with a choice of either give up their religion
or be successful where they are living, either give up their religion or be hounded
and persecuted. Then many times they succumb, and it takes rare individuals who
can stand up to this kind of pressure. The boy who is bar mitzvah here today
four years ago he was not even sure he was Jewish. He could not speak a word
of English or a word of Hebrew, and he was taken into the Hebrew Academy where
he learned to do what he could do and now he is at the top of his class in Hebrew
and in English. You can see how well he read the Torah, how well he did the Haphtorah,
how well he is going to do the Mussaf, what a fine speech he gave. His parents
are true heroes because in Czechlosovakia in their town where almost every single
Jew, especially the young Jews, ran away from the religion, changed their name,
changed their name even twice because on Czechlosovakian forms they ask you what
is your name and what was your former name. They did not want to
be singled out as Jews anymore. These four couples in the town
were all that was left basically of the Jewish community. They
refused to kowtow. When they had a chupa they were investigated
by the police. When they gave their son a bris they were accused of
child abuse. They had difficult times. They were
hounded. They were persecuted, but, yet, they refused to give
up. They refused to say that Judaism was dead. Many of their
Jewish friends had accepted communism. Communism was a better
idea than Judaism. Let's accept it. Let's live with our
neighbors, even though the neighbors always pointed out that these were
the former Jews, like they did in Spain with the Moranos. The
Jews even there did not completely lose their identity to the
goyim. To themselves they lost their identity. These were
people who never gave up. These were people who like Sarah and
Esther and Moshe served as beacons of hope to people who had already
fallen asleep as far as their Jewishness was concerned.
This is, of course, what the rabbis mean when they say that all of
Sarah's life was equal. It was all equal because she never gave
up. No matter was tzores came to her she never gave up. Why
was it that Sarah died after she heard about the Akedah? Because she
knew that her mission in life was over, that she had raised a son that
was going to continue on in the footsteps of herself and Abraham, that
she should have lived longer and shed naches from him, that is a
question only G-d can answer. She knew that she had fulfilled a
function because her son, too, was willing to stand up. Her son,
too, was willing to put his life on the line for Judaism.
Therefore, her mission was really over in life. We all know that
many times Jews think that they can rely on the promises of others, but
we know that throughout history we have been disappointed. The
German Jews thought they could rely completely upon the German
promises. Anything that we Jews have ever achieved we have
achieved because we have had to pay a high price. The same thing
was true with Abraham. Three times the sons of Chais said they
would give
him the burial plot free, but at the end Abraham paid 100 times the
average yearly wage of a worker. He was overpaid for that plot of
land. The Jewish people, if they are to survive, it is because of
our own efforts. We can say the Bnai Chais and Bnai Chais and interact
with others, but we know that unless we stand up and be counted we will
not exist. There are many more Jews now in Czechlosovakia than we
first thought because now that communism has collapsed these Jews are
coming out of the woodwork. Now Israel is sending
emissaries. They have free summer camps for their children.
They can now go on aliyah. When Tomas' family came to America
they had escaped from Czechlosovakia, risking their lives. In
Czechlosovakia you had to leave a family member behind. When they came
here to visit Eva's sister they had to leave Tomas behind, and when Eva
saw that the boys at the Hebrew Academy were playing basketball with
their yarmulkas that gave her such a thrill because in Czechlosovakia
you could not display any Jewish symbols. If the boys and girls in the
school knew that you were Jewish they would treat you like in the movie
"School Ties". You would be hounded and persecuted. Your
life would be embittered. It made her feel so good to see Jewish
boys playing openly outside with yarmulkas on. They
escaped. They took their life in their hands. They were
able to get visas to go to Yugoslavia on a trip, and somehow they let
Tomas go with them. Then on the trip Vojtech was able to convince
the tour guide that his wife and child were sick and had to go to the
hospital so the tour guide gave him back the passports. When they came
to Belgrade they bought train tickets to go to Austria. At the
border they were stopped by custom officials who said that people with
Czechlosovakian passports could not cross the border into Austria and
they were put off the train. The police from the Czech embassy in
Belgrade were summoned to take them back to Czechlosovakia where they
would be put into prison, even long sentences and Tomas would be put
into an orphanage, but Eva somehow managed to convince the next customs
official on the next train to let them pass and he did let them
pass. They came to Vienna. They have been
a success In America. They have been a success in America because
of relatives who helped them and friends who helped them, but mainly
they have been a success In America because they know how much their
Judaism means to them. They were willing to stand up for
it. Because they were willing to stand up for it, now there is a
revival of Yiddishkeit in Czechlosovakia. It never died, so,
therefore, the others can now come to It after communism has
collapsed. Tomas, you are being given a great legacy, the legacy
of your religion, and you are being given this legacy by your parents,
not just through love but through tears and blood also. All your four
grandparents are Holocaust survivors and all their families were wiped
out just because they were Jews, but your grandfathers and grandmothers
never gave up. They determined even In a communist country they
would be Jewish, and your parents decided to continue that tradition
and they stood up when the time was tough. They were like Sarah,
Esther, and Moshe. They made sure that hope would still be there,
that no matter what would be thrown against them they would not deny
their Jewishness because Judaism is something precious. Judaism
is something that the world needs. Judaism still has much to
teach the world. We all hope and pray that you will always remember
this, that you will remember that you come from heroes and that Judaism
is something that they sacrificed for so that you could have it.
Let us all hope and pray that through their merit and through the merit
of many others who stood up for Judaism Jews will not only survive but
will thrive and truly be a beacon of light to the world. Amen.